Nigerian singer Tems has made a surprising revelation about her personal life - she's never been in love!
In a recent interview with Flow With Korty, the 28-year-old songstress shared her thoughts on love, relationships, and what it means to truly love someone.
For Tems, love isn't just a feeling, but a deliberate choice. "Loving someone for me is more of 'I see you and I still want to be in your life. Even though you annoy me sometimes, I choose you and I choose you," she explained.
Tems doesn't believe in love at first sight or blind love. Instead, she thinks that true love means accepting someone for who they are, flaws and all. "I don't believe that love is blind. I think if you really love someone, you're loving them with your eyes open," she said.
Tems also made a distinction between infatuation and love. "I feel like people get infatuated, and they call that falling in love. But if you're blind, that is not love. Love is when you've seen the person, their flaws and all, and you still want to be with them," she clarified.
Despite never having been in love, Tems is open to experiencing it. "I would like to be in love, to experience something deep but really real, not blind," she said. And her ideal partner? Someone who accepts her for who she is, flaws and all. "I want someone to see my goods and be like, 'Yeah, give me some of that.'"
